What i learned from this lecture from Covey was that we first need to sharpen the saw and before you can go ahead and cut the tree. Meaning that you first have to work with yourself before we can work with others. For example If a friend ask you advice on how to cut on sleeping late, but you have also been sleeping late. You cant just advice her without applying it herself. This is a seek first to understand, then to be understood situation. If you really want to help you friend because she might be showing poor effectiveness for sleeping late, then the best thing to do is to listen to her understand her and how she feels. Try to put yourself on her shoes and what is it that you would do if you were in that situation. Once you have it apply, if not try talking to her more and get her to express herself maybe then you can help.
My Spring Break On my spring break my family and i went down to Bakersfield to visit one of my aunts. While we were there we went to a park called Camelot Park it was kind of similar to Golf and Stuff which is here in LA. I also went to a party with my boyfriend where i met most of his family for the first time. I had fun we dance and i was able to talk to his cousins and even meet his grandma. I was kind of glad it went out that way because i was nervous to meet them all at once. It was something i was always anxious about even though we have been together for five years. He does have a pretty big family. I went to the party the next day of my spring break and then on Sunday I went to Bakersfield and came back on Tuesday. I had a lot of time to start watching 13 Reasons Why and i finished it on Friday. I was also able to finish most of my homework and get over with the stress.
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